UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE
I am a mother of three (ages 14, 12, 3) and have recently
completed my college degree. The last class I had to take was Sociology.
The teacher was absolutely inspiring with the qualities that I wish
every human being had been graced with. Her last project of the term
was called "Smile." The class was asked to go out and smile at three
people and document their reaction. I am a very friendly person and
always smile at everyone and say, hello anyway.....so, I thought, this
would be a piece of cake, literally.
Soon after we were assigned the project, my husband, youngest son, and
I went out to McDonalds, on a crisp March morning. It was just our way
of sharing special play time with our son. We were standing in line,
waiting to be served, when all of a sudden everyone around us began
to back away, and then even my husband did. I did not move an inch...an
overwhelming feeling of panic welled up inside of me as I turned to
see why they had moved. As I turned around, I smelled a horrible "dirty
body" smell, and there standing behind me were two, poor homeless men.
As I looked down at the shortest gentleman, close to me, he was smiling.
His beautiful sky-blue eyes were full of God's Light as he searched
for acceptance. He said, "Good day" as he counted the few coins he had
been clutching. The second man fumbled with his hands as he stood behind
his friend. I realized the second man was mentally deficient, and the
blue-eyed gentleman was his salvation. I held my tears as I stood there
with them.
The young lady at the counter asked him what they wanted. He said, "Coffee
is all, Miss." because that was all they could afford to be able to
sit in the restaurant and warm up; they had to buy something ..they
just wanted to be warm. Then I really felt it...a compulsion so great
I almost reached out and embraced the little man with the blue eyes.
That is when I noticed all eyes in the restaurant were set on me...
judging my reaction. I smiled and asked the young lady behind the counter
to give me two more breakfast meals on a separate tray. I then walked
around the corner to the table that the men had chosen as a resting
spot. I put the tray on the table and laid my hand on the blue eyed
gentleman's cold hand. He looked up at me, with tears in his eyes, and
said, "Thank you." I leaned over, began to pat his hand and said," I
did not do this for you...God is here working through me to give you
hope."
I started to cry as I walked away to join my husband and son. When I
sat down my husband smiled at me and said, "That is why God gave you
to me, honey....to give me hope." We held hands for a moment, and at
that time we knew that only because of the Grace that we had been given,
were we able to give. We are not church goers, but we are believers.
That day showed me the pure Light of God's sweet love.
I returned to college, on the last evening of class, with this story
in hand. I turned in "my project" and the instructor read it....then
she looked up at me and said, "Can I share this?" I slowly nodded as
she got the attention of the class. She began to read and that is when
I knew that we, as human beings and being part of God, share this need
to heal people and be healed. In my own way I had touched the people
at McDonalds, my husband, son, instructor, and every soul that shared
the classroom on the last night I spent as a college student. I graduated
with one of the biggest lessons I would ever learn....UNCONDITIONAL
ACCEPTANCE.
Much love and compassion sent to each and every person who may read
this. Learn how to LOVE PEOPLE AND USE THINGS - NOT LOVE THINGS AND
USE PEOPLE. If you think this story has touched you in any way, please
send this to everyone you know.
May God bless you.
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