THE STRANGER (author
unknown)
A few months before I was born, my dad met a stranger who
was new to our small town. From the beginning, Dad was fascinated with
this enchanting newcomer, and soon invited him to live with our family.
The stranger was quickly accepted and was around to welcome me into the
world a few months later. As I grew up, I never questioned his place in
our family. Mom taught me to love the Word of God, and Dad taught me to
obey it. But the stranger was our storyteller. He could weave the most
fascinating tales. Adventures, mysteries, and comedies were daily conversations.
He could hold our whole family spellbound for hours each evening. He was
like a friend to the whole family. He took Dad, my brother, and me to
our first major league baseball game. He was always encouraging us to
see the movies and he even made arrangements to introduce us to several
movie stars. The stranger was an incessant talker. Dad didn't seem to
mind, but sometimes Mom would quietly get up - while the rest of us were
enthralled with one of his stories of faraway places - go to her room,
read her Bible, and pray. I wonder now if she ever prayed that the stranger
would leave. You see, my Dad ruled our household with certain moral convictions.
But this stranger never felt an obligation to honor them. Profanity, for
example, was not allowed in our house - not from us, from our friends,
or from adults. Our longtime visitor, however, used occasional four letter
words that burned my ears and made Dad squirm. To my knowledge the stranger
was never confronted. My Dad was a teetotaler who didn't permit alcohol
in his home - not even for cooking. But the stranger felt like we needed
exposure and enlightened us to other ways of life. He offered us beer
and other alcoholic beverages often. He made cigarettes look tasty, cigars
manly, and pipes distinguished. He talked freely about sex. His comments
were sometimes blatant, sometimes suggestive, and generally embarrassing.
I know now that the stranger influenced my early concepts of the man/woman
relationship.
As I look back, I believe it was the grace of God that the stranger did
not influence us more. Time after time, he opposed the values of parents,
yet he was seldom rebuked and never asked to leave. More than thirty years
have passed since the stranger moved in with us, but if I were to walk
into my parent's home today, I would still see him sitting there waiting
for someone to listen to his stories and watch him draw his pictures.
His name?
We always just called him..................TV.
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